My
Grandparents had a long marriage over 60 years. They were both in
their 90s when they passed away. There must have been difficult times
in their marriage, but I never saw any sign of it. My father said he
could never remember them having a cross word with each other. They
worked as a team and supported each other in their roles. Maybe they
sorted out their roles early in their marriage. I do know that there
was clearly marked areas of responsibility and that they honoured
each other's roles. Nana was very loyal to her husband and would
never tolerate a bad word said against him (he could be a bit strict
towards his children even when they were grown!).
I
think the answer was their love for God and their love for family. I
know that if there was a problem in their children's or grandchildren
lives they would come running. I have so many memories of their love
for me, my brothers and sister and cousins. Somehow Nana managed to
show each one of us her special love for us, even when there were up
to 30 people in her home at Xmas, she still managed to each and every
one of us a blessing. So, if she managed to do that for us, just
think of the love she must have showed Granddad. A real role model
for all of us. I definitely believe that Alice managed to fulfill the
Proverbs 31:12 verse of loving supporting, encouraging her husband
all the days of her life.
For
the artwork, I used photos of wood, leather, a vase and an oil
painting and put them together on Photoshop with a lot of tweaking..
The oil painting is not my usual style, I wanted a soft look that was
fuzzy and warm! It was actually good to paint in a looser manner, I
think I got more expression in it, than if I used my normal tighter
style. Think I will do more work like this.
Linked to Paint Party Fridays and Spiritual Sundays
Terrific media work. Happy PPF, Annette x
ReplyDeleteShe is done so well ~ rather ethereal ~ (A Creative Harbor) ~ always good to have you come by ^_^
ReplyDeleteI really like this! I think you succeeded with the softness--
ReplyDeleteFantastic sharing, and I love the softness of the portrait.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful artwork! Love the softness of it.
ReplyDeleteSounds like your grandparents had a wonderfully loving and supportive relationship.
♥♥♥
Happy PPF!!
Mary
Mixed-Media Map Art
Wow, nice work! Happy PPF
ReplyDeletedigital art is new to me...I like what you created here...soft lines yes, cracked look at top finished beautiful. represents the imperfection of any relationship (to me) but the whole of it is beautiful and perfect in it's own way. lovely story to go with lovely art. hppf on s.
ReplyDeleteI'd love to learn how to do something like this. It's so soft and beautiful. And even more beautiful to read of their special love. I hope my grandchildren can say that about my husband and me.
ReplyDeletevery nice. i like the soft focus you captured. have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteLovely photo, and sweet story. Reminds me of my own dear grandparents.
ReplyDeleteAwesome! God is so good! We are trying to be good grandparents too, and leave a legacy of love of God to our grands! Great post!
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessed union they shared! And truly a wonderful legacy they created.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful work, wonderful story. Less contrived paintings seems to have more arty mystery to them. I can be way to contrived, but prefer my painting a little loser...it's all about letting go I guess!! Your nana sounds like an very loving woman. Love your unique work!
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I admire your work. You have a wonderful legacy of love!
ReplyDeleteBlessings.
Lovely soft painting!
ReplyDeleteGorgeous portrait of Alice! True, love is the answer but many people don't understand the meaning of this. :)
ReplyDeleteMy parents were together 67 years! Daddy passed away 12 years ago, every year since on their anniverary Mother will say, "Jay and I have been married (how ever many it would be) years. She will be 98 in October. Enjoyed your post!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful legacy for you and obviously you appreciate it. Thank you for sharing this with us on Spiritual Sundays.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Charlotte